Not dating my best friend
As a gesture of thanks for participating in the survey, I’ve put ebook on sale for 67% off in all territories for the next 72 hours only (sale ends at midnight Sunday Sept 24). To put that in perspective, a mocha or latte at Starbucks costs .15, and an hour of parking in San Francisco or New York City costs . On the other hand, you get to keep this book (which, incidentally, has helped tens of thousands of women) for under 3 beans.
If you already have the book, thank you thank you thank you and please tell a friend.
In the meantime, here are the preliminary results of the survey.
By far, the biggest challenge the respondents encountered was meeting quality men.
Perhaps alcohol comes to mind, or you may picture something darker.
The truth, however, is that there are many different types of addiction from which men and women suffer every day.
This response summarized the challenge nicely: “Meeting a man who I feel compatible with, feeling attracted to that same man AND having him treat me well.” This is what all the online dating methods call the phase.
In the beginning I was still hung up on Bad Boy, but distraction and detox (no contact with Bad Boy) really worked. Some of you were kind enough to answer my 60-second survey question: What is the single biggest challenge you’re dealing with in dating and relationships these days?
You’re here, I know, because you’re holding onto hope by a tiny little thread.
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When Bad Boy reached out to me 16 months later, the addiction was genuinely dead, and I could authentically say f*** off. A’s excellent advice, detox from your Bad Boy, and if you can, find something or someone that can pull you forward into the present or the future — rather than some wistful past that you’ve idealized. If you wanted to answer but didn’t get around to it, you can do it now here.